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so i was idling online a few hours ago and stumbled on some hilarious myths and facts about homosexuals and thought i would share. Here are 5 myths about homosexuals,have a laugh!

Myth. You can always tell homosexuals by the way they look or act. Men who act in a feminine manner must be gay. Masculine women with short haircuts and deeper voices must be lesbians.

Facts. These stereotypes only apply to about 15% of male homosexuals and 5% of lesbians. These stereotypes confuse the concept of sexual orientation (whether you prefer the same or other sex as sexual partners) with gender roles (exhibiting masculine or feminine behavior). Just as the vast majority of gays and lesbians do not fit these stereotypes, a portion of heterosexuals match them. Except for their actual sexual activity or admitting their sexual preferences, there is no accurate way to judge someone’s sexual orientation.

Many adolescents and some adults are not secure in their masculinity or femininity. For them, it is important to be as different from a homosexual person as possible. They may even have homophobia — an unreasonable fear and/or hatred of homosexuals. With their insecurity, they maintain stereotypes of effeminate male homosexuals and masculine lesbians. When they follow the stereotyped gender roles, they feel more sexually adjusted. They use the stereotypes to distinguish between outgroup and ingroup members. When these individuals meet homosexuals who do not fit the homosexual stereotypes, they feel very upset and threatened. They are extremely upset by any activity with people of the same sex that even hints at being sexual.

Myth. Homosexuals never marry. Therefore, people who never marry are homosexual. Likewise, people who marry and have children can be presumed to be heterosexual.

Facts. Many homosexual people do marry and have children. Likewise, many people who never marry are strictly heterosexual. About one in five gay men and one in three lesbians enter into a heterosexual marriage at some time in their lives.

Myth. Homosexuals are all undersexed; homosexuals are all oversexed. (It’s heard both ways.)

Facts. Whether people are heterosexual or homosexual, they exhibit a great range of sexual desire and activity. Before the advent of AIDS, there was a small segment of homosexual males who were extremely active — exceeding the capacities of almost all straight men. However, they are the exception rather than the rule. Outside of this small group, homosexuals and heterosexuals are similar in their levels of sexual activity.

Myth. Recently the number of homosexuals has increased tremendously.

Facts. From Alfred Kinsey’s studies (1948, 1953) to others in the 1980s, the incidence of homosexuality has remained fairly constant. However, homosexuals are more visible now. With the gay liberation movement, more homosexuals stopped keeping their preferences secret. Many more have “come out of the closet.”

Myth. Homosexuals are constantly trying to convert straight people to homosexuality.

Facts. Just as a few heterosexuals try to seduce homosexuals, a few homosexuals may try to seduce straights. However, the great majority of homosexuals do not attempt such seduction. Homosexuals are not likely to “make a play” for someone who does not seem attracted to them. As with most of us, at times homosexuals may confuse friendship with sexual attraction. They may act on their erroneous assumption. Unfortunately, this seems to greatly bother those who believe the first myth we mentioned. They may wonder, “Why did they think I might be homosexual?” Any efforts to convert straights to homosexuality — or vice versa — are very unlikely to succeed.

click the link to view more myths about homosexuals: http://virgil.azwestern.edu/~dag/lol/Homosexual.htm

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  • http://www.facebook.com/people/BJ-Thomas-Jr/100003343006672 BJ Thomas Jr.

    Homophobia is a myth.

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